Where do you get your validation


Week 8 – A Beauty to Rescue

I’m blown away but not surprised… if that makes any sense.

The reality check that nearly every man gets his validation from his woman (or another man in the case of same-sex attraction) was not something I’ve ever really specifically drilled into in my own life.

Sure I’ve done co-dependency courses and been in recovery classes for over 6 years and I’m very aware how we give our power away to others but for some reason Session 8 resonated on a whole new level. Once I started to ask God how this might apply in my own life it became very obvious.

Concepts like :

  • Those whom we give the power to validate us also inherits the power to invalidate us
  • We don’t love our wives so they love us back, we love them because that is our God-given role in marriage. 
  • Even if you love your wife perfectly like Christ – she still may not respond.

And much more – this was some deep stuff brothers – if you missed this lesson make sure and create some space and check it out online by clicking the link above or visiting the WAH Page

Blessings in Christ,


p.s. Feel free to add your voice to this post – what stirred in your heart after watching the video?


About Nikaos Coaching

Not long ago I would have identified myself as a child-abuse survivor who has struggled with PTSD, OCD, ADD, Social Anxiety Disorder, an Addict, Alcoholic and one who suffers from chronic illnesses... TOO MANY LABELS! Today I am whole, filled with inner-peace, content, motivated, focused, I know who I am and what I am capable of and I feel incredibly grateful for all of my life experiences both good and bad... and today is the best day of my life! I now have a voice, and a mission, to help everyone I meet launch into their best life through finding freedom from the "I can't" disease that persecutes much of mankind into a mediocre life devoid of passion, power and purpose.
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2 Responses to Where do you get your validation

  1. Roland says:

    Thanks so much this site is awesome


  2. Thanks Roland! It is something I truly enjoy spending time with, glad you find it useful!!


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